A Ghanaian is saying, ‘Obra Ne Woara Bo’, which translates to ‘Life Choices’. Yes, to be a genius and a successful person in this life, it all depends on the choices you make growing up.
When we were young, we had over a million ideas that we wanted to achieve. We wanted to be this and be that, but we didn’t focus on the long-term plan for making a selected dream possible.
Peer pressure from bad friends pushed us to the wall on not succeeding in having a focused ambition, but rather it was all mixed feelings of things we cannot get at that time. It rather puts our focus on girls, clubbing, and drinking, which has destroyed many lives.
How To Clear Our Mind To Be Successful In Life
There are many right ways to succeed as a youth, whether you are under your parents’ care, a caretaker, or taking care of yourself by working.
Don’t focus on sports betting too much, being addicted to the world of betting if you are not a Pro will drain all your hard-earned cash, which you can use to acquire proper education and knowledge to better your future to be somebody in life.
If your friends want to party every week, stick to your books and let them party themselves. Don’t be a dull one; you decide to party once in a while, but don’t stay out late because you may be kicked out of school or work.
Focus on your selected dream, work, or ambition you have laid down and save, and work towards achieving that goal. Remember, you fall once or twice on your way to your dreams, you will one day reach them because you will be learning from your mistakes.
Do You Have To Off Ladies While Focusing On Your Dreams?
Having a female friend while focusing on your dreams is not a bad ideology; we all have ladies as friends, but focusing on getting intimate with most of them can slow your process in getting to the top.
Let Go With A Few Examples On Getting Intimate With Lots Of Ladies While Focusing On Your Dreams
You can get one, two, or even three ladies pregnant, which will slow your dreams can also prevent you from reaching your set dreams if you keep lots of ladies as lovers while learning at school or college.
Two or more ladies can clash at your home, workplace, or school, which may result in fights because neither of them don’t wants to be treated as the second option.
So there you have it is better to be focused than to be distracted when you are in your youthful days and trying to have a future for yourself, which your family and kids can enjoy at peace.
My Conclusion Remarks On Making Good Life Choices
Make choices on the facts that you want to be successful in life, be someone people can look up to, and say I want to be like him or her because you lived a good, focused life.
Don’t make choices because your friends are making the same; they can succeed with it, but you cannot because you didn’t choose the right decision you were meant to take.
Always think twice before you move or react, compare the outcome, whether good or bad, before you react.
